[转帖]男人准则——《教父》语录

“A man has only one destiny！”
一个人只有一种命运！（要么苟且偷生要么抗争到底，不抗争，便只能像蝼蚁一样的活着，不满也不甘，奋斗的原动力，促使着你向上爬，变得更强更有力，一直坚持下去把它当作你在这个世界上的使命来完成。）
    “迈克·柯里昂在西西里过了五个月的流浪生活之后，终于真正懂得了他父亲的性格和他自己的命运。他终于真正懂得了像路加·布瑞西和冷酷的克莱门扎这类人物，也懂得了他母亲那种安分守己的超然态度。在西西里，他看的一清二楚，要是他们不行动起来同自己的命运作斗争，他们将落得什么下场？他懂得了，为什么老头子反反复复地说：“一个人只有一种命运。” 迈克破天荒地第一次悟出一个道理，为什么像他父亲那样的人，甘愿当盗窃犯和谋杀犯而不愿意当合法社会的守法公民？贫穷，恐惧，屈辱，这些东西太可怕了，对任何一个有骨气的人来说，都是难以忍受的。”

“Great men are not born great, they grow great.”
伟大的人并非生来就伟大，而是在成长过程中体现其伟大。

“Any profession was worthy of respect to men who for centuries earned bread by the sweat of their brows.”
千百年来，只要凭卖力气，流汗水换饭吃，任何职业都是值得尊敬的。

“A matter of seconds to see the nature of people and spend half my life is also unclear one thing to see the nature of man, nature is not the same fate.”
在一秒钟内看到本质的人和花半辈子也看不清一件事本质的人,自然是不一样的命运.

“There are things that have to be done and you do them and you never talk about them. You don’t try to justify them. They can’t be justified. You just do them. Then you forget it.”
有些事必须干，你干就是了，绝不高谈阔论。不要去判断要做的这些事是否合理。它们没法判断。你干你的就是了，干完之后就忘记。

“Never tell anybody outside the family what you’re thinking again.”
永远不要告诉外人你的（真实）想法。

“You make the choice, and this is your price.”
你做出了这个决定，这是你的代价。

“When you say ‘no’ word, you have to the ‘No’ To put it sounds like the word ‘is’ the same as the word sweet. Another way is you have to try to get them to say ‘no’ word.You have to be patient, do not have to trouble.”
当你说‘不’字时，你得把‘不’字说得听上去就像‘是’字一样悦耳。另一个办法就是你得设法让他们说‘不’字。你得耐心，还得不怕麻烦。

“Friendship can build a solid defense.”
友谊可以筑起一道坚实的防线。

“Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than government; it is almost the equal of family. Never forget that. If you had built up a wall of friendships you wouldn’t have to ask me to help.”
友谊就是一切。友谊比天赋还重要。朋友比政府还重要。朋友简直等于自家人，永远不要忘记这一点。如果你用朋友的友谊筑起一道防线，你也就不会相求于你的教父了。

“Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.”
离你的朋友近些，但离你的敌人要更近，（这样你才能更了解你敌人的弱点）

“Never hate your enemy  it affects your judgement.”
永远不要恨你的敌人 ,因为这会影响你的判断力。

“Let your friends underestimate the advantages of the enemy overestimate your weaknesses.”
让朋友低估你的优点，让敌人高估你的缺点。
（人生中除了有一个敌人过高估计你的缺点，就再也没有更大的自然优势了。）

“society imposes insults that must be borne, comforted by the knowledge that in this world there comes a time when the most humble of men, if he keeps his eye open, can take his revenge on the most powerful.”
社会上常常会有突如其来的侮辱，那是必须忍受的。在这个世界上，常常会出现这样的情况：最微不足道的人，如果他时刻留意的话，总会有机会向那些最不可一世的人报仇血恨。明白了这个道理，也就心平气和了。

“If anything in this life is certain, if history has taught us anything, it is that you can kill anyone. ”
如果生活告诉了我们什么，历史教育了我们什么，那就是你可以干掉任何人。

“Revenge is a dish that tastes best when it is cold.”
复仇是一道冷却后味道才最好的菜肴。

“The pain dies not likely such beyond any help! ”
痛苦不象死亡那样无可挽回！

“Do not say impossible, nothing is impossible.”
不要说不可能，没有什么不可能。

最好的威胁是不采取行动，一旦采取了行动而没有收到效果，人们就不再怕威胁了。

使用威胁乃是最愚蠢的自我暴露，事前不想一想就大发脾气乃是最危险的任性表现。



“Do you spend time with your family? Good. Because a man that doesn""""t spend time with his family can never be a real man. ”
你经常花时间跟家人呆在一起吗？不错。因为不经常与家人呆在一起的男人，永远也成不了真正的男人！

“I spent my whole life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless. But not men.”
我花费了一生的精力，让自己学会小心谨慎（行事），女人和小孩能够粗心大意，但男人不行。

“Your love is also your weak point.”
你的所爱同时也是你的弱点.

“Don’t let women dictate your actions and they’re not competent in this world, though certainly they’ll be saint in heaven while we men burn in hell.”
不要让女人左右你的行为。而她们在这个世界上并没有这样的资格，尽管可以肯定她们会上天堂。当圣人，而男人要下地狱，受火烧。

“the physical beauty, the sexual power of women, carried not the slightest weight in worldly matters. It was a private affair, except, of course, in matters of marriage and family disgrace.”
女人的肉体美，女人的性魅力，在人情世故中是无足轻重的私人小事，当然，除非涉及到婚姻和家庭荣辱。

“There are things I’m going to be part of , you can’t be around. So, love somebody else.”
我所要投入的事业容不下你，那么，去爱别人吧。

（男人本性好色但永远不要被女人所困，捍卫雄性博弈的利益准则比为女人冲锋更重要！）

   
“I’m gonna make him an offer he can’t refuse.”
我将给他一个他无法拒绝的理由。（如果他拒绝了，那么当他晚上操女人的时候，我会把他心爱的良种马的头割下来丢在他的床上。）

“Everything I do with my power, including something criminal, I just want to protect my family and my friends .”
我以我的力量所做的一切事情，包括一些罪恶，只是为了保护我的家人和我的朋友。

“I work for his family and refused to become a big shot hands of the puppet.”
我为自己的家族工作，拒绝成为大人物手下的傀儡。

“Politics and crime  they’re the same thing！”
政治和犯罪是一回事！

“Behind every great fortune,there is a crime.”
巨大财富的背后,都隐藏着罪恶。

“The richest man is the one with the most powerful friends.”
钱与权永不分家

“A lawyer carrying a briefcase to grab more money than by holding a submachine gun in 1000 to grab to grab even more money.”
一个提着公文包的律师所抢到的钱比一千个拿着冲锋枪的抢到的钱还要多.

“When a man was generous,he must show the generosity as personal.”
如果一个人很慷慨，那他就必须把自己的慷慨表现得充满感情。

“Senator,we"re both type of the same hypocrisy,but never think it applies to my family.”
我们都是伪善的人，参议员先生，但永远不要把它与我的家族联系在一起。

“See, all our people are businessmen. Their loyalty is based on that. One thing I learned from Pop was trying to think as people around you think. On that basis, anything is possible.”
看，与我们打交道的都是生意人。他们忠诚是建立在利益至上的。我从爸爸那里学到的一点，那就是揣摩周围人的想法，以他们的立场去思考。在生意的基础上，一切皆有可能。

“You know those Arctic explorers who leave caches of food scattered on the route to the North Pole? Just in case they may need them someday? That’s my father’s favors. Someday he’ll be at each one of those people’s houses and they had better come across.”
“你知道北极探险家在去北极的路上，沿途总要把食物在地窖里埋起来吗？就是为了预防有一天走到那里可能需要食物。这就是我父亲为别人做好事的道理。他有一天也可能有事相求，要登门拜访他们。所以最好他们能先过来拜访下我们。”

The Don helped those in misfortune whose misfortune he had partly created. Not perhaps out of cunning or planning but because of his variety of interests or perhaps because of the nature of the universe, the interlinking of good and evil, natural of itself.
柯里昂教父一方面在帮助那些陷于不幸的人们，但另一方面那些人的不幸一定程度上却是他造成的。这，既不是出于阴谋诡计，也不是出于刻意安排，而是由于他利益的多样性，或者说是宇宙的自然法则，善与恶的相互渗透乃是自然本身的法则。

“I never wanted this for you. I work my whole life — I don""""t apologize — to take care of my family, and I refused to be a fool, dancing on the string held by all those big shots. I don""""t apologize — that""""s my life — but I thought that, that when it was your time, that you would be the one to hold the string. Senator Corleone; Governor Corleone. Well, it wasn""""t enough time, Michael. It wasn""""t enough time.”
我从来没有想过要带给你这些。我工作了一辈子，来养家糊口，我没有道过歉，我不愿意当个傻瓜，做那些大人物手中的提线木偶。我毫无歉意，这就是我的命运，不过我也想到过，到时候我儿子成为真正的男人时，你就要做手握绳子的那个人。柯里昂参议员，柯里昂州长。好了，时间不多了，迈克尔。时间不多了！

   
“Life is so beautiful…….”
生活是如此美丽………（老教父临终语）

    人生就是场战争，但又不仅仅是战争，因为人生中没有像战争那样明确的前方和后方，人生中往往会遇到更多的对手更复杂的问题，被多个方向朝你开火；人生的进退远比在战场上更复杂更细微，单凭勇敢冲锋很难取胜，也不能干净利落地撤退，战场上如果进退两难停留在开阔地只有被炮击迅速死掉，但在人生中不奋争到底、安于现状就会在不思察觉中渐渐陷入温水泥潭中慢慢淹死；战争中可以通过一次突然发动的闪电战迅速打垮对方的有生力量做到以小搏大，人生往往需要权衡利弊来不断坚持斤斤计较，需要更大的耐心和毅力；人生的对手比战争中更隐秘，那些算计你侵犯你利益的人往往就隐藏在你身边或者也有可能真正的对手就是自己的弱点和所爱；一个意志坚强勇敢无畏能够通过魔鬼训练周的战士不一定能活着离开战场，但一个无法心狠手辣的人必定在社会博弈中被别人吃掉！人生中很多时候都会是靠自己孤军作战，没有任何支援。社会是现实残酷的，所谓的自由、平等、公平、公正都是念经背书的屁话！作为男人一定要坚定自己的做人做事准则，菜鸟可以不断推翻自己的准则，老鸟绝不应背叛自己的准则，这样才能生存下来。这个世界是丑恶的，只有在丑恶中大胆博弈胜率，仔细分析每一件事，认真对待每一个对手，不断坚持在每一笔交易中都权衡利弊斤斤计较搏取属于自己的收益，赢家通吃笑到最后，那么生命结束时才会像老教父一样满足的感概“Life is so beautiful…….”